tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6371165029078155035.post2447334426762264057..comments2023-06-26T04:17:49.040-07:00Comments on In the Shade of the Veil: Something Interesting I came across...Umm Maymoonahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04028013036314223585noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6371165029078155035.post-69287315559419567192007-12-02T22:03:00.000-08:002007-12-02T22:03:00.000-08:00assalaamu alaikum, i just came across this in my l...assalaamu alaikum, <BR/><BR/>i just came across this in my links page<BR/><BR/>sometimes i write things that are complex and people don't get the subtlties i aim for<BR/><BR/>of course, you should be yourself and talk - as you said husbands enjoy hearing their wives talk (usually lol)<BR/><BR/>the points i made weren't meant to negate those (as they seemed obvious)<BR/><BR/>i can't tell you how many sisters were offended or at least concerned that perhaps i was saying women shouldn't talk at all, or keep problems to themselves, etc.<BR/><BR/>you know, i wrote another piece called "leave your husband" and again, people completely misunderstood me - a bunch of brothers came on, some chastizing me, some praying for my marriage lol, thinking i was writing a piece of frustration or suggesting people actually leave/divorce their husbands<BR/><BR/>finally, alhamdulillaah a sister came on who got it and i like jumped for joy lol<BR/><BR/>anyway, if you're ever up to it, maybe check that out too and see what you think<BR/><BR/>good luck with your blog :) baarakallaahu feek<BR/><BR/>wassalaamu alaikum wa rahmatullaahi wa barakaatuhAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6371165029078155035.post-2338928902036917892007-05-03T04:54:00.000-07:002007-05-03T04:54:00.000-07:00I think you need a balance with everything. I'm su...I think you need a balance with everything. I'm sure my husband would be bored if I didn't talk so much. I asked him what he thinks, he said be yourself.Umm Maymoonahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04028013036314223585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6371165029078155035.post-10006425862507280802007-04-18T10:34:00.000-07:002007-04-18T10:34:00.000-07:00interestingand makes me think about the theories w...interesting<BR/>and makes me think about the theories which state that men and women communicate differently.<BR/>like women tend to tag questions on the end of phrases, in order to gain a response - "it's nice weather today,isn't it? i probabaly shouldn't wear this dress tonight,should i?<BR/><BR/>and men APPARENTLY only tend to get involved in conversations they've initiated, as then they have more control and know what they're talking about.hemahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06608098208898026089noreply@blogger.com